When we think of a table, we may imagine celebration, good food, and conversation. But in the Gospels, the table becomes something more –  a place of service. Jesus not only sits at tables; he serves at them.

On the night before his crucifixion, Jesus gathered with his disciples for a meal. John tells us that “having loved his own who were in the world, he loved them to the end” (John 13:1). Then, in a very surprising way, “He poured water into a basin and began to wash the disciples’ feet” (John 13:5). The Teacher and Lord took the place of a simple household servant. 

At that table, Jesus showed that true leadership is not about position or title. Instead, it is about serving others. He said, “I have set you an example that you should do as I have done for you” (John 13:15). Therefore, the Table of Service is not only a beautiful story for us to read; it is a pattern for our daily life.

This theme of humble service isn’t limited to the biblical world. In fact, many cultures echo this value. Among the Javanese people in Indonesia, there is a saying that helps us understand this kind of humble leadership: sepi ing pamrih, rame ing gawe. 

• • Sepi ing pamrih means we do not let self-interest control us. 
  • Rame ing gawe means we are active in the work.

Literally, it means “quiet in self-interest, busy in the work.” A person who lives like this does not put themselves at the centre. They work hard for others, often in hidden and simple ways. 

We are willing to give our time, energy, and gifts to help others, even when no one is watching. This wisdom from Javanese culture challenges the modern attitude that says, “I will serve if it helps my image or my success.” Consequently, it calls us to a quieter, deeper faithfulness.  

Our world often measures greatness by visibility, power, and platform. But Jesus says, “Whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant” (Mark 10:43). In Javanese words, he invites us to be sepi ing pamrih, rame ing gawe: not loud about ourselves, but busy in service. 

Lent is a time to look honestly at our hearts. As we walk towards the cross, we remember that Jesus not only died for us; he also knelt, touched dirty feet, and served. The cross and the towel belong together. One shows the depth of his love; the other shows the shape of his leadership. 

As we come to the Table of Service this week, let us listen again to Jesus’ words: “Now that you know these things, you will be blessed if you do them” (John 13:17). The blessing is not only in receiving his service, but also in joining him as he serves others.